
Plenty of registry checklists and online stores would have you believe that you need a whole truckload of stuff to care for a baby. But what do you REALLY need for bringing home baby?
Just think of the basics-- the baby needs to sleep, eat, have something to wear, and be clean. That's it!
While there are both simple and more complex ways to attend to these needs, the accessories and gadgets on the market have really gotten out of control. Do you really need a Baby Cry Analyzer for $120?? Or a $230 flat screen video monitor??
Probably not!
Let's take a look at what really are the basics:
SLEEP
Yes, YOU need sleep! But what does the BABY need to sleep? There are plenty of options here.
You could start off right away with a crib, or use a bassinet, Moses basket, or co-sleeper. Whichever you choose, have a few changes of sheets and receiving blankets. A swaddling blanket may be useful as well, and you'll likely get a couple blankets and maybe a pacifier from the hospital.
All of these items can be bought new or used or borrowed from a friend. Just remember to check the CPSC site for any recalls.
If your tiny baby looks lost on that giant crib mattress, just roll up and tuck a few receiving blankets around her.
Bassinets and baskets are much smaller in size than a standard crib and will likely be used for only a few months. So if you want to use either of those, they are good candidates for items to borrow.
EAT
Breastfeed if you are able and willing. Breastfeeding is mostly free, except for the increased cost of food for you and some lotion, breast pads, and accessible tops/bras.
If breastfeeding isn't for you, go with formula. Most hospitals and doctors offices will give you formula samples to get you started, if you choose.
If you formula-feed, you'll also need a few small bottles. The more bottles you have, the fewer times a day you'll have to wash them.But don't go load up on one type of bottle right away. There are many shapes and styles of bottles and of nipples and you want to find what works best for you and the baby before you stock up. So, start with a few bottles of different styles and see what you like.
WEAR
A handful of onesies, some pj's or sleeping gowns, and some warm socks and a hat are plenty to get you started.
If your baby spits up a lot, you may want to get some plastic-backed bibs as well. Those tiny little bibs that come with all the baby outfits are cute, but not very useful for protecting clothing.
Ditto for the frilly dresses and lacy blankets that seem to be required baby shower gifts. Don't bother putting them on your little girl right away unless you want her to be itchy and the fabric to be ruined!
Keep your eyes open for consignment sales in your area, as these are great places to stock up on clothing.
CLEAN
Babies don't need to be bathed often, but you'll want some gentle soap and a soft washcloth for those baths.
An adult's fluffy towel can work perfectly well to wrap the baby during and after the bath. Those tiny little baby towels are adorable but not the most practical things!
For changing diapers, you really don't need a fancy changing table or even any changing table at all! Get a changing pad and lay it on the floor, or just use a towel the same way. Add in some diapers and wipes, and you're ready to go!
Last but not least.....a carseat!
You won't be able to leave the hospital without it. And of course, eventually you'll want to leave your house with the baby.
You can buy an infant or convertible carseat new or used. As with the cribs, check with the CPSC to ensure that the seat hasn't had any safety recalls.
If you are going thrifty in most areas and can afford to spend a bit more in others, I'd recommend splurging on the carset and crib. Those 2 items are the most important to a baby's safety and will be used for the longest period of time.
Share your experience--- What baby gear or supplies did you find to be a "must have"??
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6 comments:
I can't believe they make a cry analyzer...
I loved the Bobby. You can use it for so many things, feeding and the baby can "play" on it. Of course, a small pillow would have worked, too! I actually inherited my Bobby from my sis in law.
There's so little that's essential, other than the things you've mentioned. So much of it is a marketing ploy, in my opinion.
Seriously one item that I loved, though not neccesarily essential was our baby bouncer. It was a seat that baby could sit on and was portable throughout the house. Baby could watch us eat dinner, watch as I worked in the kitchen, took a shower or got ready in the morning. It was a great item! The nice thing is you can often find them for $10-15 on consignment, so it's not too expensive of a purchase!
Suzanne- I totally agree about the marketing ploy. Once you realize how little you can get by with, it is eye-opening!
Meshellyn- We didn't have a bouncer with our first, but maybe I'll pick one up on consignment this time to try!
We just took a few unexpected plane trips with our 6 week old for a family emergency, and the wrap came in handy so I could have an extra hand to carry some of our stuff in terminals and hold him hands free on the plane. It was a $12 no-sew project for 6 yards of knit fabric from the clearance rack during Joann's 50% off clearance sale, and I have plenty of fabric left for another project or two. There are lots of websites with instructions for wrapping & wearing baby!
my sling. my friend made it for me and it got a LOT of use@
I got a sling with my last baby, but she was already too big for it by the time I got it. I'm going to try using it again this time! I think with a toddler running around, I'll need both hands free. :D
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